Relaxing Rock Meditation

Has anyone ever told you just relax , take a deep breath, and everything will be ok?  Has that been helpful?  When someone says “just relax”, it feels harder.  You think about relaxing and how you should relax. This causes you to tense up and feel more tension in your body. You tell yourself to relax, but your muscles are now tight and sore. Why is this so difficult?  I find that guided meditation and yoga helps me relax and breathe deeply.  

Here is a link to a guided meditation that I find particularly helpful. It’s only 15 minutes, so you can relax in a short amount of time. Enjoy!

15-minute meditation: Body Scan Piedmont Healthcare.

Dystonia

I never understand what brings on the symptoms of Parkinson’s. Recently, I began curling my toes and feet which causes pain and tense tight calves (a symptom known as dystonia).  My left foot is especially affected.  I decided that maybe a new pair of shoes would help, so I went to the Up and Running store in Kettering, OH.  I walked into the store and a friendly person greeted me.  She totally understood my issue when I told her my problem with my toes and feet. She explained how the shoes I was wearing could be contributing to the pain. WOW!  Is it really that simple?   She showed me a pair of shoes with a platform that was flat and did not angle towards the toes. This relaxes the foot, which results in less pain.   I tried on a new brand of shoes and felt like I was walking on a cloud.  I began jumping and bouncing because they felt so good.  Who would believe that I was wearing the wrong shoes for curling toes? It makes so much sense. I, of course, had to buy the shoes.  They are so awesome! I’m back to taking walks again without my feet hurting. If your feet don’t feel good, you don’t feel good. That is the truth.

Thank you to the Up and Running store, they really made a difference in my feet and my walk.  I am not in pain anymore and am very thankful.

Reader’s Theatre

How many of you have voice issues which result in a voice that cracks, shakes, and is raspy? Would you like to improve that? Research shows that 89% of people with Parkinson’s will have issues with their voice. Exercising your voice will help your voice remain strong.  I belong to a Reader’s Theatre group that reads scripts together out loud.  The scripts are light-hearted and funny and we take turns playing the different characters.  It is organized by my good friend Marilyn.  She does a fantastic job at picking the scripts.  Before COVID we were meeting at the NeuroRehab and Balance Center in Miamisburg and now, we are meeting through Zoom.  It may be a little challenging, but we always make it work.  

Anyone who has Parkinson’s is welcome to the Reader’s Theatre.  Our group meets via Zoom on the third Thursday of the month at 5 pm.  I really hope you will come and see what we are all about.  This is a  chance to use your voice and connect with others at the same time.  It’s a lot of fun.  Please email Marilyn Klaben at marilynklaben@gmail.com.

Being prepared for the hospital

COVID has continued much longer than any of us anticipated. How many of you have discussed hospital logistics with your loved ones? COVID has caused hospitals to restrict visitors.  If you take a family member to the emergency room you may be asked to wait in your car.  Some hospitals are beginning to allow visitors, but only one per day.

It is important to be prepared for a  hospital visit, even if you do not have plans to be in the hospital.  Pack a bag or backpack as if you were going to the hospital.  Here are things you should include in your bag :

  • Current medications
  • Medication list by name (multiple copies)
  • Medication list by the time (multiple copies)
  • Copy of Living Will
  • Copy of Durable Power of Attorney for health care
  • Paper and pen
  • Sweater
  • Change of clothes
  • Parkinson’s Foundation Aware in Care Kit.
  • Paperback book

The Parkinson’s foundation created a hospital kit, called the Aware in Care Kit, which is free and available from their website.  You will find the following things in the kit: fact sheets for the nurses, a hospital action plan, a medical alert card and bracelet, and a medication form.  This kit is invaluable to you and the medical staff.  The nurse fact sheet shows which medications are harmful to patients with Parkinson’s.  Take one sheet and stick it in your wallet.   There is an online form to fill in with your medications.   Enter your information in the table and print it out.  How easy is that?  The link below will take you to the page where you can order your kit for free. I have not seen this information anywhere else.  Order yours today.

Last, but not least, be your own advocate. Speak up if you did not receive your medications or they were not given on time.  Let the nurses know if there is a problem or you are feeling worse.  Your partner/spouse/friend may not be with you to advocate on your behalf.  Speak up, speak out.  Use your voice.  Your goal is to get well,  so you can return home to your family.

Advocate for Parkinson’s Now!

Have you read the book Ending Parkinson’s: A Prescription for Action? If you have not, you should read it this week. Dr. Ray Dorsey along with several other authors are taking action to advocate to increase Parkinson’s funding. Specifically, they have initiated a campaign to ask President Biden to increase the federal research funding for Parkinson’s, which is quite low.

If you register on their website, they will send you a letter that you can customize and then send to President Biden. It’s written, you just have to sign and mail. How easy is that? In addition to asking for increased research funding, the letter will ask President Biden to ban chemicals such as paraquat, chlorpyrifos, and trichlorethylene, which are in pesticides and increase the risk of Parkinson’s disease. Lastly, it will encourage the President to make Medicare’s coverage of telemedicine visits permanent.

There is also a live event on March 16th. I’ve placed a link to their website below. Please take a few minutes to read the information on this website. It is so important to participate in this campaign and to send a letter to the President. This is a chance to voice our concerns about research funding for Parkinson’s. We need a lot of people to send letters to make an impact. Please take a look at the website and register. Thank you for helping advocate to increase Parkinson’s research funding.

RED LETTER DAY!

Bi-weekly blog posts

Thank you so much for your continued reading of my blog. I am going to work on some marketing and other areas of the website for the next several weeks. So instead of new weekly posts, I will be writing a new post every other week. I hope you will continue to read, and comment when you feel moved. Thank you again for your support. Stay tuned. 

New Exercise Videos

I recently heard Dr. Jay Albert from the Cleveland clinic discuss his study on cycling and how it affects someone with Parkinson’s. According to Dr. Jay Albert, someone who exercises with intensity will improve motor function, cognitive thinking, and walking. Because of this new information, I am beginning to challenge myself physically.   

I have found two new exercise videos by Leslie Sansone. She is rebranding, updating her workouts, and adding new instructors. I enjoy the new format. The exercises are simple, but they will elevate your heart rate. Leslie Sansone’s new series, Walk, Run, Lift, and  Steel City Workouts  can be found on YouTube, Leslie Sansone’s Walk at Home channel. Enjoy!

Support one Another

I was diagnosed with Parkinson’s in 2014. It took a while to accept the diagnosis. Once I did, I wanted to meet others with Parkinson’s. At one of the support groups, I met Chris Gaffney, Executive Director of Parkinson’s Support & Wellness. We talked and realized we had similar goals. One of the goals was to begin a support group in the Dayton area.  In 2018, I began a group called Working With Parkinson’s. The group meets monthly; generally a discussion topic is chosen in advance so people can be ready with questions or comments. Since 2018 it has become a strong group of people who lift each other up. Refer to the Working with Parkinson’s page for more information, including a contact form for questions.

I know that things are tough for everyone mentally and physically. People search for groups and people to share their common interests or issues. I recently received several requests for information about support groups in the area. Parkinson’s Support & Wellness has a page on their website which lists the Parkinson’s support groups in the tri-state area. The groups are run by the individual community leaders and not by Parkinson’s Support & Wellness. The list shows nine groups in the tri-state area, including contact information for the group leaders. We all need a little help getting by right now. Parkinson’s support groups can make a difference in your life and will help you connect to others with Parkinson’s.  See http://parkinsoncincinnati.org/support-groups for the list.

This song by The Beatles captures the idea of supporting one another perfectly:

What would you think if I sang out of tune?

Would you stand up and walk out on me?

Lend me your ears and I’ll sing you a song

And I’ll try not to sing out of key

Oh I get by with a little help from my friends

Mm I get high with a little help from my friends

Mm gonna try with a little help from my friends

The Beatles, With a Little Help from my Friends. 1967

Thank You

I am very excited because this website has had 500 visitors since September 2020. Thank you to everyone who supports me by reading my blog posts. Writing each blog post reveals something new to me. Thank you for your feedback and encouragement to keep writing. If you have any ideas you think I should explore, send me a message from the about page. I appreciate all of you.

The Tempos of our Lives

I have done a lot of musical performances in my lifetime, most of them when I was younger.  Sometimes I was good and sometimes I was bad.  I played the mellophone in the marching band and totally loved it!   One particular Friday night we were marching the halftime show at the football game. We had memorized two shows.  One for the football game and one for the competition that weekend.  During one of the half-time shows, I kept turning the wrong way.  I was doing the wrong show. I could not stop marching to the competition showpiece.   We were marching the halftime show.  They were totally different!  OH BOY!  The director was not very happy with me that night. 

Parkinson’s can be a lot like marching band.  Every week there is a halftime show (show A) and a competition show (show B).  You have practiced both shows and your body memory will tell you the right one to march.  However, the body memory misfires and you are marching to the other show.  You know that you are supposed to be marching to show A not show B.  But, again, the body memory is marching to show B.  Doesn’t that feel like Parkinson’s?

Our mind tells us that the body should work one way.  However, the body has decided to behave differently. Sometimes, it changes every week!  The symptoms for the week keep us marching to a different drummer.  We can try to fight with the body and keep attempting to march to show A.  We can also accept that the body will be marching to show B for that day or that week. I’ll tell you that isn’t easy.  You want so much to be marching to the same show that everyone else is marching.  You do not want to march to show B alone.  The band is marching to show A.  You tell your body, “hey body, we are marching to show A”.  The body says, “sorry, Cheryl, we are marching to show B today”.  

What do you do?  The answer to that varies.  There isn’t a magic pill that will allow us to march to show A.  Some days are easier to accept that you are marching to show B.  Other days you are fighting and turning back every chance you get.  I don’t have a good answer to this problem. I just keep marching. I try to take each day in stride and remember that I can march to either show.  That’s Parkinson’s. You never know which show will be playing and how the musician inside will be performing. It may help to realize that there are two shows. Maybe, that will make accepting show B a little easier when your body decides to march that show.